I came to realise that living our purpose is not about chasing the experience of winning, achieving wonderful results, affluence, and accomplishments.
Or perhaps, it's about rethinking what achievements truly mean and reevaluating what is genuinely important.
I believe and feel that the ultimate achievement in life lies in showing up.
And, of course, the extent to which we show up depends on our ability to heal and resolve things, so our nervous system feels safe and relaxed, supporting our pursuits, rather than tense and ready to fight /flight /freeze or /fawn to protect us.
The level of healing and clearing is contingent upon the depth of emotion we can allow and embrace in our relationships (including our relationship with ourselves).
The depth of emotion we can allow and engage with from a caring and tender place is determined by the level of safety we can discover and learn to cultivate.
And what does the level of safety we can find and cultivate depend on? It seems that it depends on the people who we connect with... if we encounter someone whose energy feels safe and inviting enough that we dare to take risks, and /or are transmitting that felt sense of inner safety through their being so we may also find it within ourselves... because it's there...
Ultimately, I don't believe we can fail at life.
However, living this earth-life feels better when we are free to show up.
I want to acknowledge my level of privilege and open my heart to others and inspire change towards healing our hurts so we may function in a more loving state of being - to the degree that we are able.
And I have a sense that you and I might agree on this. If you are reading this, you most likely desire the same.
You can be a remarkable influencer in this world of influencers in your own unique way.
You were born for such a time as this and your world needs you... start with your personal world, your inner world... make sure there is peace in the kingdom within.
I believe in you.
Love always,
Ildiko <3
I am here...
If you feel moved to explore and discover that inner sense of safety that is there within you, I am here to support you.
Write a message to me here or sign up for a free discovery session today and let's start your journey towards a better future. Even if you decide that you don't want to work with me, you will have gained a lot of clarity and self-knowledge and that's well worth the time and effort.